How To Have A Happy Relationship

A relationship is tricky. Tensions build up over time and one day both the partners cannot bear the stress of the relationship and give it up. After that they keep thinking about why that happened. Why not secure the relationship from the outset. Every relationship will have pluses and minuses. Our aim ought to be to build the pluses. The minuses will then become insignificant. What are the factors that may positively influence a relationship? Let us write them down.

In case you are trying to be ideal, do not do that. That causes stresses. Accept that both of you are imperfect.

Speaking about breakup up in heat of the moment is wrong. One ought to avoid speaking about breaking up altogether. Avoid discussing about any break up your friends have. Do not focus on any negative. Focus on positives.

Lying about anything ought to be absolute no. Do not even try to hide things. Be open about everything. Seldom create any trust deficit.

Be compassionate towards each other. Take care of the mood swings and do not generate tension over little things. Try to ease the atmosphere. Show care towards other person.
Always finish the day on a happy note. Do not let any misunderstanding open at the finish of the day. Clear up all the mess and apologize if needed.

If something was better for you historicallyin the past and is not so in the present, avoid saying so.

Know all about your partner's likes and dislikes. If there is a conflict between what you like and what your partner likes, speak about that openly. Surrender if necessary. Ego in little matters seldom helped any one. You will feel better in case you give happiness to your partner.

Go by your nice instinct. Avoid thinking and dwelling on negatives. Think of the world as a nice place and your relationship as a great one.