How to Have a Great Marriage

Good marriages don't happen; they are built over time with the dedication of both partners. You select how to behave in your marriage, as you select how to behave in any social situation. Choosing to behave in a courteous and respectful manner to your partner will help you cultivate a happy and successful marriage.
1.Take divorce off of the table. Sit down as a couple and make a formal agreement that divorce is out of the query and you'll both do whatever it takes to make your marriage work. Such an agreement, when abided by, can prevent things that lead to divorce, like adultery or abuse.

2.Speak about how you'll handle the stressful things in life as partners. Select how you'll handle finances and conflict resolution before they become issues. A formal plan will help you know what to do to work through stressful situations.

3.Be honest along with your partner. Don't hide things or keep secrets. Such behavior sabotages trust and makes it difficult to have a nice and happy marriage. Always be honest, irrespective of how difficult or challenging that conversation may be.

4.Make a conscious work to be kind and generous to your partner. Leave love notes or do things that you know make your partner feel happy and loved.

5.Take time to be a married couple. Make a date night five times a week or five times a month and make that time together a priority. Go out to eat, go see a play or go sit on the beach and meet up with each other. Hold hands and reconnect.

6.Keep in mind that sex is important. Sex makes married couples feel closer to each other and promotes loving and happy feelings. Even if you are not always in the mood, engage in regular sex to keep your marriage strong.

7.Support each other's hopes and dreams. It is often difficult to share our dreams with others; so when your partner shares a lifelong dream, do whatever you can to help your partner accomplish it.

Good luck!!!