If you are a man who hasn't been successful in attracting women, then this article is just what you need. Seducing women is an art that takes time to master. However it seems to come natural to some men.
Take a look at the 7 powerful secrets the top seducers use and watch girls melt:
1. Don't try too hard: nothing is more unattractive than a man who begs or acts desperate. Showing her a lot of interest will ruin your chances of seducing her.
2. Be confident: many times you see average looking guys, who date gorgeous women.
What's their secret? It's self-confidence, a trait that women find very desirable. You should communicate with her in a relaxed manner, without appearing insecure and needy.
3. Don't talk too highly of yourself: being confident is one thing and coming across as arrogant is completely another. No woman likes selfish and self-absorbed men, who seem incapable of loving another human being.
4. Be a good listener: when she's talking, carefully listen to what she has to say without giving her the impression that you are bored. Make her believe that you are interested at her as a person and you are not simply trying to get her into bed.
5. Pay her a compliment: every woman loves compliments. They make her feel desirable and hopefully she will feel grateful and more attracted to you.
6. Don't hit on every girl you see: hitting on every woman you see will make you look pathetic. Carefully choose your target and make her feel flattered that you picked her.
7. Watch your body language: you want to convey confidence and masculinity. Don't have a bad posture and don't avoid eye contact, because it will make you look insecure.
I hope you got this straight into you. Go grab that lady of your choice! Good luck!
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How To Make Her Like You
Since the beginning time, when men were dragging their knuckles on the ground, men have been chasing women. To make the process of finding and attaining that woman a little easier, the question arises, how do I make her want me?
Well, its not as difficult as you think and that is why any man can have any woman they want if they follow these simple rules:
1) Listen - When you are with her, do you listen to what she is saying? Allot of times, you don't have to say a word, just listen to what she has to say and don't make suggestions or try to fix her problem. Let her speak and if she asks for your opinion then give it.
2) Confidence - Always display confidence in how you handle yourself, how you dress, how you speak, how you walk, and how you act around her. The little things always show confidence, standing up straight, don't slouch, speak clearly and direct, make continuous eye contact while talking to her.
3) Chivalry - Prove to her that you are gentleman, don't say you are, be one! Open doors, pull out chairs, hold her hand, give her a kiss on the cheek when you meet. Its amazing how many men skip over these little things. Remember, chivalry is in the details as well as the grand gestures.
4) Needy - Do not come off as needy, this is the fastest way to run off a women. For example, don't keep bombarding her with text or phone calls, less is more. As they say, absence makes the heart grow fonder.
5) Mystery - This is the opposite of being needy, when she ask you a question try not to answer it directly. For example, when a woman ask me what I do for a living, I tell her I sale roses on the corner. It makes her laugh and keeps a mystery around me because she cant figure me out. When a woman cannot figure you out it makes you attractive.
6) Humor - this last trait fits in with keeping mystery surrounding you. Answer her questions with in a humorous tone. For example, when she ask if I have kids I tell her not in the USA. Or, when she ask how long I have been on Match.com, I tell her not long, just 10 to 12 years and I have made a couple of friends ;)
Utilize the above tips to make her want you when she is with you. The best thing about the above tips is that anyone can implement them, they don't cost a dime, and you will get better at doing them each time you utilize them. Good luck!
Well, its not as difficult as you think and that is why any man can have any woman they want if they follow these simple rules:
1) Listen - When you are with her, do you listen to what she is saying? Allot of times, you don't have to say a word, just listen to what she has to say and don't make suggestions or try to fix her problem. Let her speak and if she asks for your opinion then give it.
2) Confidence - Always display confidence in how you handle yourself, how you dress, how you speak, how you walk, and how you act around her. The little things always show confidence, standing up straight, don't slouch, speak clearly and direct, make continuous eye contact while talking to her.
3) Chivalry - Prove to her that you are gentleman, don't say you are, be one! Open doors, pull out chairs, hold her hand, give her a kiss on the cheek when you meet. Its amazing how many men skip over these little things. Remember, chivalry is in the details as well as the grand gestures.
4) Needy - Do not come off as needy, this is the fastest way to run off a women. For example, don't keep bombarding her with text or phone calls, less is more. As they say, absence makes the heart grow fonder.
5) Mystery - This is the opposite of being needy, when she ask you a question try not to answer it directly. For example, when a woman ask me what I do for a living, I tell her I sale roses on the corner. It makes her laugh and keeps a mystery around me because she cant figure me out. When a woman cannot figure you out it makes you attractive.
6) Humor - this last trait fits in with keeping mystery surrounding you. Answer her questions with in a humorous tone. For example, when she ask if I have kids I tell her not in the USA. Or, when she ask how long I have been on Match.com, I tell her not long, just 10 to 12 years and I have made a couple of friends ;)
Utilize the above tips to make her want you when she is with you. The best thing about the above tips is that anyone can implement them, they don't cost a dime, and you will get better at doing them each time you utilize them. Good luck!
How To save Your Marriage From Divorce And Heart-Break
Welcome to my page. Today, I'll be highlighting on the need to avoid divorce in your marriage and ways to saving it from wrecking.
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If you are struggling to save your marriage from divorce, then you will want to special attention to the advice we have in this article. Specifically we'll discuss how to diagnose the specific problems in the marriage, then how to take action together to solve the problems and finally, to learn to be patient with the process. After you have an understanding of all of these points, you should be able to make real progress to get your marriage back on track.
The first thing you will need to do is understand when working on saving a marriage is the underlying problem that is causing your troubles. It's easy to blame the other person at this point but the reality is that you are at least half responsible for the issues you are facing.
The key at this point is to be honest with yourself and your spouse. Is the issue a matter of trust, such as an affair, or are you having financial troubles or are you just not in love anymore? No matter what it is, be truthful and direct no matter how much pain is involved. If you don't feel you can do this directly, consider getting a counselor to help.
Once you have both communicated your feelings, then the next step will be deciding on a course of action together.
For example, if the main issue in your marriage is financial problems, then you will both need to agree to get on a budget and manage spending together. Since the main issue is that either one or both of you spends more than they make, by working together as a team you can rebuild a bond that will rekindle feelings of trust and affection. These are important building blocks to saving your marriage from divorce.
After you have identified the problem and decided on a course of action together, the last step in saving a marriage will be to have patience with the process. It is likely that your problems did not arise overnight and so they will take time to work themselves out. Along the way, there will surely be times that you will second guess the decision to stay together but the key is to persevere. You should only consider splitting up after you have both given the plan an honest effort and time to work.
Saving your marriage from divorce can be a very difficult and challenging process. However, if you can take the time to identify the problems, agree on a course of action and stay patient with the process you have a very good chance to regain the happiness you once had.
I wish you the best of luck in your journey.
Your Relationship Coach
Abujai Joe...
Read On...
If you are struggling to save your marriage from divorce, then you will want to special attention to the advice we have in this article. Specifically we'll discuss how to diagnose the specific problems in the marriage, then how to take action together to solve the problems and finally, to learn to be patient with the process. After you have an understanding of all of these points, you should be able to make real progress to get your marriage back on track.
The first thing you will need to do is understand when working on saving a marriage is the underlying problem that is causing your troubles. It's easy to blame the other person at this point but the reality is that you are at least half responsible for the issues you are facing.
The key at this point is to be honest with yourself and your spouse. Is the issue a matter of trust, such as an affair, or are you having financial troubles or are you just not in love anymore? No matter what it is, be truthful and direct no matter how much pain is involved. If you don't feel you can do this directly, consider getting a counselor to help.
Once you have both communicated your feelings, then the next step will be deciding on a course of action together.
For example, if the main issue in your marriage is financial problems, then you will both need to agree to get on a budget and manage spending together. Since the main issue is that either one or both of you spends more than they make, by working together as a team you can rebuild a bond that will rekindle feelings of trust and affection. These are important building blocks to saving your marriage from divorce.
After you have identified the problem and decided on a course of action together, the last step in saving a marriage will be to have patience with the process. It is likely that your problems did not arise overnight and so they will take time to work themselves out. Along the way, there will surely be times that you will second guess the decision to stay together but the key is to persevere. You should only consider splitting up after you have both given the plan an honest effort and time to work.
Saving your marriage from divorce can be a very difficult and challenging process. However, if you can take the time to identify the problems, agree on a course of action and stay patient with the process you have a very good chance to regain the happiness you once had.
I wish you the best of luck in your journey.
Your Relationship Coach
Abujai Joe...
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