Two simple words, “I’m Sorry” but hard for some to say

These simple words have caused people not to speak to each other for limitless years. They say the bigger person will say sorry when they never caused the issue, they only require to keep the lines of communication open in the name of relatives or friendship. Two simple words, Sorry are so hard for some to say. Some say those words and never mean them. Some people wait for lots of years to listen to those words and expect a closure that never comes. So why is it that the simplest of words in the English language, or any language for that matter, over such deep scars, and such great animosity? How giant of a deal is it to expect to listen to those special words. Its a great giant deal! People have gone through counseling; people have had problematic relationships, lots of things stem from not hearing those special words. Sometimes people walk down the wrong path in life journey. So here is what you can expect ¦nothing, not a single thing. Basically don’t expect to listen to those words because the individual that is not saying them probably don’t even know that they did something wrong in their eyes. In my eyes it would be better not to listen to an sorry than to listen to halfhearted. The lines of communication are up to you. You can start out with it hurt me when, or I don’t understand how or why. Your perception of something wrong is not the same as somebody else. You must figure out if that particular relationship is worth saving and supporting. The elderly adage you can’t blame somebody who is not aware that a controversy exists. This is so true, so try to reassess the issue and then think about what the other person got out of that particular situation, in the event you are still not sure, pick up the phone and speak about it. Life is way short to speculate, be definite and don’t let years go by because you are waiting for an apology that might not ever come. Live life, and be happy! Rise above the pettiness that life can throw at you sometimes. Rise above the hurtful things that bring you to your knees. But above all, rise above the senselessness of carrying hurt around inside you. You are a lot better than that. Love and peace to you always!

Key to a Lasting Marriage

Most couples who get married expect that their marriage will last but fact is that half of all marriages dont. So the eternal query becomes What is the magic key to a long-lasting relationship or marriage?

of the keys, according to a new study by Evelyn Lehrer, an economist at University of California at Chicago, is that ladies are waiting longer to get married. The median marrying age for ladies has risen from twenty in the 1950s to 26 in 2005.

While they dont know for sure the why this is happening, they can offer some ideas that will help you generate a wedding that is not only long-lasting but also that is filled with passion, love & connection.

If ladies are waiting longer to get married, they know more of what they need in their lives & the kind of partners that they need to spend it with when they have had some experience & a few years under their belts.

Whether you are currently married or single female or male think back to when you were twenty years elderly. Did you know what you wanted? Did you have a clearer picture when you were a bit older & wiser?

There’ s always some step you can take toward generating more of what you need in your life. You can recognize what this step is by first getting to know yourself a little better.

way to do this is by stopping your busy life, turning down the outside noise for even a moment or, & tuning in to your inner being.

While you can’t go backwards in time & change the coursework of your life & the decisions that you made, you can pick what you need right now in your life & not settle for what you don’t need.

It can only take a few moments to turn down the outside noise by breathing deeply & focusing your attention inside of you. When you do, you can identify what you are feeling in the moment. You can put a label on the feeling & receive a knowing of what you need.
When you do that, you are able speak more clearly to the important people in your life & you can ask for what you need with more clarity & more passion.

If all of this sounds mystical, not practical & something that might be lovely but you dont have the time to do it you might need to reconsider.

Whether its a long-lasting marriage or relationship that you need or something else, they recommend that you get to know yourself better so that you can move confidently toward what brings you the most joy.

Susie & Otto Collins are Relationship Coaches & authors who help people generate lives that are filled with more passion, love & connection. For more tips on turning up the heat in your love relationship, sign up for their free mini-course at
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