Two simple words, “I’m Sorry” but hard for some to say

These simple words have caused people not to speak to each other for limitless years. They say the bigger person will say sorry when they never caused the issue, they only require to keep the lines of communication open in the name of relatives or friendship. Two simple words, Sorry are so hard for some to say. Some say those words and never mean them. Some people wait for lots of years to listen to those words and expect a closure that never comes. So why is it that the simplest of words in the English language, or any language for that matter, over such deep scars, and such great animosity? How giant of a deal is it to expect to listen to those special words. Its a great giant deal! People have gone through counseling; people have had problematic relationships, lots of things stem from not hearing those special words. Sometimes people walk down the wrong path in life journey. So here is what you can expect ¦nothing, not a single thing. Basically don’t expect to listen to those words because the individual that is not saying them probably don’t even know that they did something wrong in their eyes. In my eyes it would be better not to listen to an sorry than to listen to halfhearted. The lines of communication are up to you. You can start out with it hurt me when, or I don’t understand how or why. Your perception of something wrong is not the same as somebody else. You must figure out if that particular relationship is worth saving and supporting. The elderly adage you can’t blame somebody who is not aware that a controversy exists. This is so true, so try to reassess the issue and then think about what the other person got out of that particular situation, in the event you are still not sure, pick up the phone and speak about it. Life is way short to speculate, be definite and don’t let years go by because you are waiting for an apology that might not ever come. Live life, and be happy! Rise above the pettiness that life can throw at you sometimes. Rise above the hurtful things that bring you to your knees. But above all, rise above the senselessness of carrying hurt around inside you. You are a lot better than that. Love and peace to you always!