Key to a Lasting Marriage

Most couples who get married expect that their marriage will last but fact is that half of all marriages dont. So the eternal query becomes What is the magic key to a long-lasting relationship or marriage?

of the keys, according to a new study by Evelyn Lehrer, an economist at University of California at Chicago, is that ladies are waiting longer to get married. The median marrying age for ladies has risen from twenty in the 1950s to 26 in 2005.

While they dont know for sure the why this is happening, they can offer some ideas that will help you generate a wedding that is not only long-lasting but also that is filled with passion, love & connection.

If ladies are waiting longer to get married, they know more of what they need in their lives & the kind of partners that they need to spend it with when they have had some experience & a few years under their belts.

Whether you are currently married or single female or male think back to when you were twenty years elderly. Did you know what you wanted? Did you have a clearer picture when you were a bit older & wiser?

There’ s always some step you can take toward generating more of what you need in your life. You can recognize what this step is by first getting to know yourself a little better.

way to do this is by stopping your busy life, turning down the outside noise for even a moment or, & tuning in to your inner being.

While you can’t go backwards in time & change the coursework of your life & the decisions that you made, you can pick what you need right now in your life & not settle for what you don’t need.

It can only take a few moments to turn down the outside noise by breathing deeply & focusing your attention inside of you. When you do, you can identify what you are feeling in the moment. You can put a label on the feeling & receive a knowing of what you need.
When you do that, you are able speak more clearly to the important people in your life & you can ask for what you need with more clarity & more passion.

If all of this sounds mystical, not practical & something that might be lovely but you dont have the time to do it you might need to reconsider.

Whether its a long-lasting marriage or relationship that you need or something else, they recommend that you get to know yourself better so that you can move confidently toward what brings you the most joy.

Susie & Otto Collins are Relationship Coaches & authors who help people generate lives that are filled with more passion, love & connection. For more tips on turning up the heat in your love relationship, sign up for their free mini-course at
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